There’s so much confusion in the comments. In the culture. Even in our churches.
And it’s no wonder we stay divided—so many of us don’t know who we are, and worse, we don’t know whose we are.
Let’s clear something up right now: Christianity didn’t come from Europe. That’s not an opinion—it’s historical fact.
There were followers of Christ in Africa long before colonizers showed up with ships and agendas. Ethiopia, Egypt, and other parts of Eastern Africa had the Gospel. You know why?
Because Jesus Himself was there. As a child, His family fled to Egypt. That’s Africa, baby. We didn’t borrow the faith—Europe did.
“Out of Egypt I called My Son.” — Matthew 2:15
So no—our faith wasn’t stolen or force-fed. Yes, the Bible was misused by oppressors. But the Word itself? It was already alive and powerful before a European ever touched it. Our African ancestors like the Ethiopian eunuch in Acts 8 were already reading and responding to the Gospel in its purest form.
At the same time, we can’t ignore this: Other African spiritual practices existed—voodoo, Hoodoo, ancestor worship, and divination. And some of us are being drawn back to them now, hoping to find healing, identity, and empowerment.
But let me be clear:
Not everything ancestral is anointed.
Our ancestors were human. Flawed. Limited. And they couldn’t even stop their own captivity. But Jesus? He conquered death, sin, and the grave.
Deuteronomy 28 already told us what would happen when we turned from the Most High God to worship lesser spirits and idols. The consequence wasn’t just slavery—it was spiritual confusion and generational pain.
But God didn’t leave us in judgment. He gave us Jesus.
And now we get to choose: Truth or trends. The cross or crystals. Christ or confusion.
As for me and my house? We choose the LORD.
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The early church turned the world upside down—not with strategy or activism, but with the supernatural power of the gospel. This post calls believers to recover what we’ve lost: a deep dependence on the Spirit, not just the system.
A Church Once Full of Fire
The book of Acts gives us a picture of what happens when ordinary people are filled with extraordinary power. There were no marketing teams, no political alliances, and no social campaigns—just men and women whose hearts had been set ablaze by the Holy Spirit.
They preached Christ crucified and risen, and the world changed. Why? Because the gospel is not an idea to debate—it’s a power to be lived.
“For I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes…” — Romans 1:16, ESV
The early church didn’t rely on influence; they relied on the indwelling Spirit. They didn’t organize to make Christianity relevant—they proclaimed it as reality. And that’s the power we’ve forgotten.
Substituting Power for Performance
Somewhere along the way, we learned how to look alive without actually being alive. We know how to host conferences, post content, and fill pews—but not how to fall on our faces in prayer.
We’ve mastered church growth strategies but neglected spiritual dependence. We’ve built platforms but not altars. We’ve produced events but not endurance.
And the result? A busy church that is barren of power.
“Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the Lord of hosts.” — Zechariah 4:6, ESV
When the Spirit of God is replaced with the strength of man, what remains may look impressive—but it will never bear eternal fruit.
Returning to the Source
Beloved, we don’t need a new gospel; we need to remember the old one. The cross still saves. The blood still cleanses. The Spirit still empowers.
But we must come back to the place of humility—to dependence on the power we cannot manufacture. Spiritual renewal begins when we confess that we’ve traded the presence of God for the appearance of success.
If we want to see true revival in our churches and communities, it won’t come through the next initiative or election cycle. It will come when God’s people get low before Him—again.
“Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you.” — James 4:8, ESV
The Invitation
What would happen if the Black church—and the broader body of Christ—stopped chasing cultural relevance and started seeking spiritual power?
If we would turn our attention from performance to prayer, from applause to adoration, we would recover the holy fire that once turned the world upside down.
The gospel hasn’t lost its power. We’ve simply lost our dependence on it.
Let’s return. Let’s remember. Let’s rekindle the flame.
When we talk about church history, most people think the big turning point was the Protestant Reformation — and it was. But the truth is, there were two major divides that shaped the Church as we know it today.
Both moments centered on one central question: Who—or what—has the final authority in the Church?
The first divide happened in 1054 with what’s called the Great Schism. The second came in 1517 with the Protestant Reformation.
Understanding both helps us see that throughout history, God has always raised up His people to bring the Church back to one thing — the gospel.
1. The First Divide: The Great Schism (1054)
Long before Martin Luther ever nailed his 95 Theses, the Christian Church split into two main branches: the Eastern Orthodox Church and the Roman Catholic Church.
At the heart of that separation was a single question: Who has the final say — the Pope or the collective Church?
The Issue of the Pope
The bishop of Rome — the Pope — claimed universal authority over all other bishops. The Eastern Church said, “No.” They believed all bishops were equal under Christ and that decisions should be made through councils, not by one man’s decree.
The Filioque Controversy
Then came the famous Filioque clause.
The Western Church added the phrase “and the Son” to the Nicene Creed, saying that the Holy Spirit proceeds from the Father and the Son.
The Eastern Church objected — not just to the theology, but to the idea that Rome could change a creed without agreement from the entire Church.
The Result
By 1054, the two sides officially broke communion.
The Eastern Orthodox Church kept:
The ancient liturgy and worship traditions
The first seven ecumenical councils
A deeply spiritual view of salvation called theosis — becoming partakers of the divine nature
Their focus remained on preserving the unity, mystery, and beauty of the early Church — but apart from papal control.
2. The Second Divide: The Protestant Reformation (1517)
Fast forward 500 years. The Western Church — now the Roman Catholic Church — had grown wealthy and politically powerful. It sold indulgences (pieces of paper promising less punishment for sin), controlled kings, and silenced Scripture from the people by keeping it in Latin.
Then came Martin Luther, a German monk with a Bible and a conscience bound by the Word of God.
When he nailed his 95 Theses to the door in Wittenberg, he wasn’t starting a new religion — he was calling the Church back to the gospel of grace.
The Issue of Salvation
While the Great Schism was about who leads the Church, the Reformation was about what leads the Church.
Luther and the Reformers stood on this truth:
The Bible alone (Sola Scriptura) is our highest authority. Salvation is by grace alone (Sola Gratia), through faith alone (Sola Fide), in Christ alone (Solus Christus).
They believed no pope, priest, or council could add to what Scripture clearly teaches.
The Result
The Reformation gave birth to the Protestant churches — Lutheran, Reformed, Anglican, and later Presbyterian. They were all different in form, but united in one purpose: to recover the biblical gospel.
While the Eastern Orthodox Church preserved the structure of early Christianity, the Reformers preserved its truth — the message of salvation by grace through faith.
3. Comparing the Two Divides
Split
Main Issue
Focus
Outcome
The Great Schism (1054)
Papal authority — the Pope’s claim to rule the whole Church
Structure & leadership
Eastern Orthodoxy separates from Rome; keeps ancient liturgy & conciliar leadership
The Reformation (1517)
Salvation & biblical authority — Scripture vs. tradition
Truth & the gospel
Protestant churches break from Rome; return to salvation by grace through faith
Both movements rejected papal supremacy — but for very different reasons. The East sought to preserve unity among bishops. The Reformers sought to restore the purity of the gospel.
4. One Lesson from Both Divides
From 1054 to 1517, one thing remains clear: Every true reform begins when God’s people return to His Word.
The Eastern Church guarded the historic faith.
The Reformers recovered the biblical gospel. And both remind us that the Church must never elevate human authority above divine truth.
“Heaven and earth will pass away, but My words will not pass away.” — Matthew 24:35 (ESV)
Faithful Femme Noir Reflection
History shows what happens when believers stop testing everything by Scripture. The Reformation wasn’t rebellion — it was renewal.
As women who love the Word, we’re called to that same discernment today: To build our faith not on popularity, personality, or tradition, but on truth.
When we know God’s Word, we’re not tossed around by every new idea or cultural wind. We’re steady. Rooted. Anchored in the gospel that saves and the Savior who reigns.
Faithful Femme Noir — where faith stands firm on truth that never changes.
When the Reformers stood up for the truth of God’s Word in the sixteenth century, they weren’t trying to start a rebellion — they were rediscovering the gospel. Out of that bold stand came five short but world-shaking statements that still sum up what it means to be a follower of Christ.
These truths — known as the Five Solas (Latin for “alone”) — became the foundation of biblical faith during the Reformation. And five hundred years later, they’re still the heartbeat of true Christianity.
1. Sola Scriptura — Scripture Alone
The Reformers believed the Bible — not church leaders, not tradition, not opinions — is the final and highest authority.
In the medieval Church, tradition and papal decrees had been placed on equal footing with Scripture. But the Reformers held firm: only God’s Word is infallible and sufficient for faith and life.
“All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness.” — 2 Timothy 3:16 (ESV)
What it means today: Truth isn’t defined by feelings, trends, or social media. Everything we believe and live by must be measured against Scripture. The Bible still stands when everything else shifts.
2. Sola Fide — Faith Alone
Rome taught that salvation came through faith plus works — that we could earn grace through penance, sacraments, or good deeds.
But the Reformers went back to the Word and found freedom in this truth: We are made right with God through faith alone — not by what we do, but by trusting fully in what Christ has already done.
“For we hold that one is justified by faith apart from works of the law.” — Romans 3:28 (ESV)
What it means today: Your worth before God doesn’t depend on performance, but on Christ’s perfection. Faith alone saves — and genuine faith will always bear fruit.
3. Sola Gratia — Grace Alone
The Church had turned grace into a transaction — something you could cooperate with or even buy.
But Scripture is clear: salvation is all grace. It’s God’s free gift, not a paycheck for good behavior.
“For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God.” — Ephesians 2:8 (ESV)
What it means today: You can’t earn God’s love — and you don’t have to. His grace saves, sustains, and sanctifies. We rest in knowing that His mercy is always greater than our sin.
4. Solus Christus — Christ Alone
Over time, the Church had added barriers between people and God — priests, saints, and even Mary were seen as mediators.
But the Reformers returned to the simple, powerful truth that Christ alone is enough. His sacrifice is sufficient. His priesthood is perfect. His intercession is complete.
“For there is one God, and there is one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus.” — 1 Timothy 2:5 (ESV)
What it means today: You don’t need spiritual middlemen. You have direct access to the Father through Jesus Christ. His work on the cross is finished — and it’s full.
5. Soli Deo Gloria — To the Glory of God Alone
In the medieval system, glory was shared — given to saints, Mary, and the Church itself.
The Reformers restored the truth that all glory belongs to God. From start to finish, salvation is His work — and our lives exist for His praise.
“For from Him and through Him and to Him are all things. To Him be glory forever. Amen.” — Romans 11:36 (ESV)
What it means today: Every part of life — our worship, our work, our creativity, our homes — is meant to glorify God. We live not to make much of ourselves, but to make much of Him.
How the Five Solas Fit Together
Each sola corrects a distortion of the gospel — and together, they keep the Church centered on Christ.
Sola
What It Declares
What It Rejects
Scripture Alone
God’s Word is the only infallible authority.
Human tradition as equal to Scripture.
Faith Alone
We are justified through faith, not works.
Works-based righteousness.
Grace Alone
Salvation is a free gift from God.
Salvation earned by human merit.
Christ Alone
Christ is the only mediator and Savior.
Priests, saints, or sacraments as mediators.
Glory to God Alone
All life and salvation exist for God’s glory.
Glory shared with man or the Church.
Together, these truths form the framework that guards the gospel and reminds us who salvation is really about — Jesus, not us.
Faithful Femme Noir Reflection
The Five Solas aren’t dusty Latin phrases — they’re living truth for women who love the Lord.
When you feel unseen — remember Soli Deo Gloria: you live for His glory, not for applause. When you feel unworthy — remember Sola Gratia: His grace is enough. When your faith feels fragile — cling to Solus Christus: His strength never fails. When the culture confuses you — go back to Sola Scriptura: the Word still stands. And when guilt whispers — hold fast to Sola Fide: you’re justified by faith, not by performance.
The Reformation wasn’t cold doctrine — it was a revival of grace. It reminds us that everything we are and everything we have rests on this:
By grace alone, through faith alone, in Christ alone, according to Scripture alone, for the glory of God alone.
And that, sis, is still the gospel that changes everything.
Faithful Femme Noir — where faith, beauty, and truth walk hand in hand.
Every October, believers around the world pause to remember an event that changed everything — the Protestant Reformation.
It all began on October 31, 1517, when a German monk named Martin Luther nailed his 95 Theses to the church door in Wittenberg. He wasn’t trying to start a war — he was calling the Church back to the truth of Scripture. That single act set off a movement that echoed across Europe, shaking the foundations of religion, politics, and culture.
But here’s what we often forget — the Reformation wasn’t about rebellion or pride. It was about redemption. It was about recovering the beauty of the biblical gospel that had been buried under centuries of superstition, corruption, and man-made tradition.
When the Church Lost Sight of Grace
By the 1500s, the Church had become powerful, political, and tragically compromised. Leaders sold indulgences — documents claiming to reduce punishment for sin. Others bought their positions or lived in open sin while preaching holiness to others.
Meanwhile, everyday people couldn’t even read the Bible for themselves. Scripture was locked away in Latin, and most priests didn’t (or couldn’t) explain it clearly. The message people heard was this: You can be saved — but only if you work hard enough.
Then Luther opened his Bible and read these words from Romans 1:17 (ESV) —
“The righteous shall live by faith.”
That verse changed everything.
For the first time, Luther saw that salvation isn’t earned — it’s received. We are declared righteous not because of what we do, but because of what Christ has already done. Grace isn’t something we achieve; it’s a gift we accept by faith.
The Gospel Recovered
That discovery set off a holy wildfire. Men and women across Europe began to rediscover the power of God’s Word. Reformers like John Calvin, Ulrich Zwingli, and John Knox carried the torch, declaring that:
Scripture alone is our final authority,
Grace alone saves us,
Faith alone receives that grace,
Christ alone is the Savior, and
All of it is for God’s glory alone.
They weren’t introducing new ideas — they were returning to the truth the apostles had already proclaimed. They believed that the Church must be anchored in the Bible, not in tradition or human power.
Why It Still Matters
The Reformation isn’t just a moment in history — it’s a mirror for us today.
We still live in a culture obsessed with effort, performance, and “manifesting” blessings. Too often, even in the Church, we hear more about prosperity and positivity than repentance and grace.
The Reformers remind us that:
Truth matters more than trends.
Scripture stands above culture.
Salvation is by grace, not goodness.
Christ alone is enough.
Reformation Day isn’t about dividing Christians — it’s about uniting us around the unchanging gospel.
The Heart of It All
When you strip away the arguments and the history books, the heartbeat of the Reformation is simple:
God saves sinners — completely by His grace, and completely for His glory.
That truth shook the world 500 years ago, and it still brings peace to every believer who realizes that Jesus truly finished the work.
So this October, don’t just remember the Reformation — rejoice in the gospel. Open your Bible. Read it for yourself. And thank God that His grace still reaches down to us, generation after generation.
“My conscience is captive to the Word of God.” — Martin Luther
Faithful Femme Noir Reflection
Sisters, this month is a perfect reminder that Scripture must shape everything — our worship, our womanhood, our work, and our witness.
When we root our faith in the truth of God’s Word, we stop striving to earn His love and start resting in what Christ has already finished. The Reformation reminds us that our value isn’t defined by culture or comparison — it’s defined by the cross.
So let’s be women of the Word — steadfast, discerning, and full of grace. Let’s stand firm on the same solid rock that turned the world upside down five centuries ago.
Faithful Femme Noir — where faith, beauty, and truth walk hand in hand.
Let me go ahead and say this up front so nobody gets confused or triggered unnecessarily:
I loved Mr. Rogers.
I mean that. His gentleness, his compassion, the way he handled people—especially children—with such intentional care and dignity? It was beautiful. It was needed. It was rare.
But let’s not get it twisted.
The Post I Saw This Week:
Before I go any further, let me show you the exact post that’s been floating around online:
“Mr Rogers was a Republican. He was a white Christian cis het man. He prayed and read the Bible every day. He created a children’s TV show with taxpayer money in which he promoted his ‘Christian views’ to a secular audience through secular media. He studied other religions and other cultures to improve on his reach and connection. He never preached or quoted scripture—yet, we all got the message he intended for us. He appealed to President Nixon and Congress to continue to fund the creation of PBS with a persuasive speech that is one of the most studied for public speaking and PR. A gentle but powerful speaker. While white people were pouring concrete into public pools rather than share with Black neighbors, Fred Rogers broadcast himself sharing a quiet conversation in a pool with African-American musician and co-worker, Francois Clemmons. The softest act of defiance against White Supremacy. He was the most demanded speaker on college campuses—he did not have to con his way onto campus to speak and Nazis and counter-protesters did not follow his appearances—You know, despite the fact that he was a white Christian man promoting Christian values to the general public. Every generation since 1968 has been positively impacted by Mr. Rogers. Even children in the past 20 years are benefiting from his legacy at PBS—his methods and messages are STILL used in children’s programming around the world. No one had to mandate mourning his death because we all actually felt a genuine loss when he passed away. Even grown adults, who had not watched his show for 10 years by the time he passed, felt a piece of genuine goodness leave the planet. We did not have to be Christian with Mr Rogers for him to do so much for us. He never asked us to be Christian with him. He only asked us to be his neighbor. So… If you find that the general public is rejecting your brand of Christianity, it might because you are a horrible [expletive] person with a 2000 yr old book of [expletive] excuses that no one is buying into. It might be because you are a filthy grifter looking to capitalize off end-times hysteria and seniors with end-of-life anxieties. It might be cause you are a disgusting bigot trying to reap superiority while evading moral accountability. It probably has nothing to do at all with you actually ‘being a Christian’. Cause we all [expletive] loved Mr Rogers.”
Now, let me lovingly but firmly dismantle that nonsense.
This post isn’t about Mr. Rogers. It’s about the kind of Christianity the world is willing to tolerate—one that’s toothless, cross-less, and Christless. One that comforts sinners in their sin rather than calling them out of it. One that baptizes “niceness” and crucifies conviction.
Mr. Rogers was a Christian. He loved the Lord. He read his Bible. He prayed. And yes—he modeled kindness and neighborly love. But let’s be real: he was also producing a children’s show. He wasn’t trying to be your pastor. He wasn’t discipling grown adults out of their idolatry, their unforgiveness, their confusion, or their cultural compromise.
He didn’t preach the gospel on PBS—and he wasn’t supposed to. That wasn’t his platform. But because he knew Jesus, his kindness had roots, not just vibes. And that’s what made the fruit last.
But if you’re only okay with Christians who never mention Jesus, never quote Scripture, and never challenge cultural sin—you’re not drawn to Christianity. You’re drawn to a watered-down, secular spirituality that’s emotionally soothing and theologically empty.
As Dr. Voddie Baucham once said:
“Today, the 11th Commandment is ‘Thou shalt be nice.’ And we don’t believe the other 10.”
And that’s what this post reveals: a demand for a Christianity that’s always nice, never bold. Always sweet, never salty. Always affirming, never correcting.
But niceness never saved anybody.
Jesus didn’t come just to be “nice.” He came to tell the truth. He came to die. He came to rise. He came to call sinners to repentance. And sometimes that sounds like a gentle whisper. Other times it sounds like a flipping of tables.
So yes, we all loved Mr. Rogers. But if the only version of Christianity you can stomach is one where Jesus never speaks—then let’s be honest: you don’t love Christ. You love control.
Me? I’ll take the real Jesus. The one who loved His neighbor and still said, “Go and sin no more.” The one who healed with compassion and still preached with clarity. The one who died for sinners and rose with power—not just to make us nice, but to make us new.
Because the Gospel isn’t just a vibe—it’s a victory.
Call to Action:
If this spoke to you, share it with someone who’s tired of the fake, fluffy faith this world tries to offer. Let’s keep standing on truth—even when it’s not trendy.
Opening Statement : We clown white folks for ignorance, but let’s be real — too many of our own children can’t even read past the 4th-grade level. And we act like that’s normal. If we don’t face this, we’ll stay stuck where we are.
Exhibit A: The Evidence
Nationwide, reading and math scores for Black students are some of the lowest in America.
Functional illiteracy is common among Black youth, which means they’ll struggle their entire lives to get jobs, manage money, or even understand contracts.
You can’t build wealth or leadership on a foundation of ignorance.
Exhibit B: The Hypocrisy
We mock white ignorance, but ignore our own.
If someone says the truth about our schools, we scream “racism” instead of rolling up our sleeves to fix it.
Even in the church, we bury our heads. We’ll shout about “the system” but won’t mentor, tutor, or step in to make a difference.
The Law Proverbs 4:7 — “The beginning of wisdom is this: Get wisdom, and whatever you get, get insight.” God commands us to pursue wisdom, not excuses. Illiteracy is not just a social issue — it’s disobedience when we let our children grow up without knowledge.
Exhibit C: The Way Forward
Parents: Make reading a daily habit in your home. Even 20 minutes a night changes a child’s trajectory.
Churches: Stop only shouting sermons. Start literacy programs, tutoring nights, and book drives.
Adults: If you can read, teach. Volunteer at schools, mentor one child, or help a neighbor’s kid with homework.
Community: Value books more than Jordans. Knowledge outlasts sneakers.
Closing Argument We can’t keep pointing at racism while our kids fall further behind. Excuses won’t teach them to read. The devil loves an ignorant people, because ignorance keeps us bound. If we want our communities to rise, we have to value wisdom the way God values it.
Verdict Lord, wake us up. Break the cycle of ignorance in our homes and schools. Give us a hunger for wisdom and the courage to pass it on.
One of the biggest problems I see in both the Black church and the wider Black community is our habit of dismissing uncomfortable truth by focusing on how it was delivered. We call it “harsh,” “too direct,” or “not loving enough.” But let’s be honest: most of the time, that’s just tone policing.
Tone policing is when we ignore the content of a message because the tone makes us uncomfortable. It’s easier to pick apart the delivery than to face the conviction.
But here’s the reality:
The prophets didn’t sugarcoat (Jeremiah 6:14, Isaiah 58:1).
Jesus Himself often spoke in ways that offended (Matthew 15:12).
Paul asked, “Have I then become your enemy by telling you the truth?” (Galatians 4:16).
God never required His messengers to soften sin until it feels safe. He requires truth spoken plainly so that hearts can be cut to repentance.
And this isn’t just a church problem. In our community at large, we see the same pattern:
When someone calls out the destruction caused by abortion, fatherlessness, or sexual immorality, we shut down the conversation by saying, “They could have said it nicer.”
When a pastor preaches against sin, people accuse him of being judgmental instead of examining their own hearts.
When truth comes from outside voices, we dismiss it as “tone-deaf” or “anti-Black,” instead of asking whether the criticism actually lines up with reality.
But when we focus on tone over truth, three things happen:
Sin stays hidden. Our people keep hurting because we refuse correction.
The messenger is attacked. Instead of repenting, we cancel the one who dared to speak.
Repentance is delayed. Conviction is uncomfortable, but without it, there’s no turning back to God.
The Bible warns us: “For the time is coming when people will not endure sound teaching, but having itching ears they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own passions” (2 Timothy 4:3).
Family, we’ve got to stop demanding that truth come wrapped in sugar. Real love doesn’t coddle sin. Real love tells the truth—even if it cuts. And real repentance will never happen as long as we hide behind “tone” as an excuse.
Proverbs 27:6 says, “Faithful are the wounds of a friend.” Sometimes the wound is exactly what saves your life.
So whether in the pews or in the streets, let’s stop tone policing and start asking: What is God calling me to repent of right now?
Let’s talk straight — because eternity ain’t something to play with.
We live in a world that’s real good at talking about sin like it’s just bad habits or personal preferences that some cosmic deity might or might not care about. And honestly, even in church circles, we’ve got this half-truth floating around like it’s gospel: “No one sin sends you to hell — it’s rejecting Jesus that does.”
Now, on the surface, that might sound comforting. But let’s dig beneath it, because I don’t want us out here building theology on vibes and catchphrases. I want us built on the Word.
The Truth About Sin: It Ain’t Light
First of all, sin ain’t cute. It ain’t small. And it sure ain’t harmless.
“For the wages of sin is death…” (Romans 6:23, ESV)
Not the wages of murder only. Not the wages of racism, adultery, or stealing big stuff. Just — sin. Period.
Sin is cosmic treason. It’s a declaration that we’d rather rule ourselves than surrender to the One who made us. And guess what? You don’t need to sin a lot to be guilty. Just one is enough.
“For whoever keeps the whole law but fails in one point has become guilty of all of it.” (James 2:10, ESV)
You ever cracked one link in a chain and watched the whole thing fall? That’s what sin does to our righteousness — it exposes how much we need rescue.
But the Deeper Issue? Unbelief.
Here’s where it gets deeper.
It’s not just that sin leads to hell — it’s that sin reveals a heart that doesn’t believe. The rejection of Jesus ain’t always loud. Sometimes it’s quiet, passive, disguised in self-sufficiency. But it’s still rejection.
“Whoever does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only Son of God.” (John 3:18, ESV)
That’s not just about atheists. That’s for every person who hears about Jesus and shrugs. Or hears the gospel and clings to their pride instead of the cross. The sin flows from the root. And the root? It’s unbelief.
We don’t go to hell only because of what we do — we go because we refused to believe in the only One who could save us from what we do.
But Here Comes Grace.
This is why the gospel is so beautiful it’ll make you weep if you let it hit.
Jesus didn’t wait for us to sin less. He came while we were still in it.
“But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” (Romans 5:8, ESV)
He didn’t die for the version of you that finally got it together. He died for the version that was a mess, believed lies, ran from truth — and then He called you out of darkness into His marvelous light (1 Peter 2:9, ESV).
So no — it’s not just sin that sends people to hell. But if someone keeps sinning, with no repentance, no grief, no transformation — that ain’t just a bad habit. That’s a flashing sign that maybe, just maybe, they’ve never truly believed.
Let Me Be Plain:
Salvation is by grace alone. Through faith alone. In Christ alone.
“For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God.” (Ephesians 2:8, ESV)
But that kind of grace doesn’t leave you the same. It won’t let you be comfortable in rebellion. It pulls you toward holiness like a magnet — even when it’s hard.
If you really believe, your life will bear witness — not perfection, but fruit. If you don’t? The fruit will show that, too.
So What Now?
If you’re reading this and thinking, “I’ve sinned too much,” — you haven’t. If you’re thinking, “How do I know if I really believe?” — talk to Jesus. Repent. Trust Him again. Ask the Spirit to confirm your adoption. If you’re thinking, “I know folks who are walking in sin and think it’s no big deal,” — speak the truth in love. Not from a seat of judgment, but with a heart that knows what grace can do.
We don’t preach hell to scare people. We preach truth to save them.
And the truth is this: Sin is serious. Unbelief is deadly. But Jesus? He’s mighty to save.
Stay grounded. Stay bold. Stay surrendered. He’s worth it. Every time.
“Therefore, as you received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in him, rooted and built up in him…” — Colossians 2:6–7, ESV 🌿
You ever been so hurt by someone else’s sin that your own disobedience started to feel…justified?
I know I have.
Maybe it was the betrayal of a friend, the failure of a leader, or the cruelty of a stranger. They lied on you, manipulated, abandoned, or abused. And somewhere along the way, your heart whispered, “I deserve to be bitter.”“I deserve to clap back.”“I can do what I want now, because they crossed the line first.”
But let’s be clear: Someone else’s sin does not give you the right to sin.
That’s not how holiness works.
God doesn’t grade righteousness on a curve. He doesn’t call us to be holy if they are. He calls us to be holy because He is. (1 Peter 1:16)
Yes, what they did was wrong. Maybe even evil. But if their actions become your permission slip to act out of character with Christ, then you’ve stopped following Jesus and started following your pain.
You’re not avenging yourself—you’re chaining yourself to their disobedience. You’re allowing their rebellion to birth your own.
But sis, listen: you are not their sin. You are not what they did. And you don’t have to carry the weight of their wrongdoing by reproducing it in your own life.
Jesus didn’t go to the cross so we could become spiritual reflections of the people who hurt us. He went so we could look more like Him.
Forgive. Release. Obey. Not because they deserve it, but because He does.
That’s the freedom holiness gives us—the power to be different, even when it costs us something.
Let the cross be your compass, not your critics. Their sin is not your standard. Christ is.
