Month: September 2025

Let me go ahead and say this up front so nobody gets confused or triggered unnecessarily:

I loved Mr. Rogers.

I mean that. His gentleness, his compassion, the way he handled people—especially children—with such intentional care and dignity? It was beautiful. It was needed. It was rare.

But let’s not get it twisted.

The Post I Saw This Week:

Before I go any further, let me show you the exact post that’s been floating around online:

“Mr Rogers was a Republican. He was a white Christian cis het man. He prayed and read the Bible every day. He created a children’s TV show with taxpayer money in which he promoted his ‘Christian views’ to a secular audience through secular media.
He studied other religions and other cultures to improve on his reach and connection. He never preached or quoted scripture—yet, we all got the message he intended for us.
He appealed to President Nixon and Congress to continue to fund the creation of PBS with a persuasive speech that is one of the most studied for public speaking and PR. A gentle but powerful speaker.
While white people were pouring concrete into public pools rather than share with Black neighbors, Fred Rogers broadcast himself sharing a quiet conversation in a pool with African-American musician and co-worker, Francois Clemmons. The softest act of defiance against White Supremacy.
He was the most demanded speaker on college campuses—he did not have to con his way onto campus to speak and Nazis and counter-protesters did not follow his appearances—You know, despite the fact that he was a white Christian man promoting Christian values to the general public.
Every generation since 1968 has been positively impacted by Mr. Rogers. Even children in the past 20 years are benefiting from his legacy at PBS—his methods and messages are STILL used in children’s programming around the world.
No one had to mandate mourning his death because we all actually felt a genuine loss when he passed away. Even grown adults, who had not watched his show for 10 years by the time he passed, felt a piece of genuine goodness leave the planet.
We did not have to be Christian with Mr Rogers for him to do so much for us. He never asked us to be Christian with him.
He only asked us to be his neighbor.
So…
If you find that the general public is rejecting your brand of Christianity, it might because you are a horrible [expletive] person with a 2000 yr old book of [expletive] excuses that no one is buying into.
It might be because you are a filthy grifter looking to capitalize off end-times hysteria and seniors with end-of-life anxieties.
It might be cause you are a disgusting bigot trying to reap superiority while evading moral accountability.
It probably has nothing to do at all with you actually ‘being a Christian’.
Cause we all [expletive] loved Mr Rogers.”

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Now, let me lovingly but firmly dismantle that nonsense.

This post isn’t about Mr. Rogers. It’s about the kind of Christianity the world is willing to tolerate—one that’s toothless, cross-less, and Christless. One that comforts sinners in their sin rather than calling them out of it. One that baptizes “niceness” and crucifies conviction.

Mr. Rogers was a Christian. He loved the Lord. He read his Bible. He prayed. And yes—he modeled kindness and neighborly love. But let’s be real: he was also producing a children’s show. He wasn’t trying to be your pastor. He wasn’t discipling grown adults out of their idolatry, their unforgiveness, their confusion, or their cultural compromise.

He didn’t preach the gospel on PBS—and he wasn’t supposed to. That wasn’t his platform. But because he knew Jesus, his kindness had roots, not just vibes. And that’s what made the fruit last.

But if you’re only okay with Christians who never mention Jesus, never quote Scripture, and never challenge cultural sin—you’re not drawn to Christianity. You’re drawn to a watered-down, secular spirituality that’s emotionally soothing and theologically empty.

As Dr. Voddie Baucham once said:

“Today, the 11th Commandment is ‘Thou shalt be nice.’ And we don’t believe the other 10.”

And that’s what this post reveals: a demand for a Christianity that’s always nice, never bold. Always sweet, never salty. Always affirming, never correcting.

But niceness never saved anybody.

Jesus didn’t come just to be “nice.” He came to tell the truth. He came to die. He came to rise. He came to call sinners to repentance. And sometimes that sounds like a gentle whisper. Other times it sounds like a flipping of tables.

So yes, we all loved Mr. Rogers. But if the only version of Christianity you can stomach is one where Jesus never speaks—then let’s be honest: you don’t love Christ. You love control.

Me? I’ll take the real Jesus. The one who loved His neighbor and still said, “Go and sin no more.” The one who healed with compassion and still preached with clarity. The one who died for sinners and rose with power—not just to make us nice, but to make us new.

Because the Gospel isn’t just a vibe—it’s a victory.

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Call to Action:

If this spoke to you, share it with someone who’s tired of the fake, fluffy faith this world tries to offer. Let’s keep standing on truth—even when it’s not trendy.

Opening Statement :
We clown white folks for ignorance, but let’s be real — too many of our own children can’t even read past the 4th-grade level. And we act like that’s normal. If we don’t face this, we’ll stay stuck where we are.

Exhibit A: The Evidence

• Nationwide, reading and math scores for Black students are some of the lowest in America.
• Functional illiteracy is common among Black youth, which means they’ll struggle their entire lives to get jobs, manage money, or even understand contracts.
• You can’t build wealth or leadership on a foundation of ignorance.

Exhibit B: The Hypocrisy

• We mock white ignorance, but ignore our own.
• If someone says the truth about our schools, we scream “racism” instead of rolling up our sleeves to fix it.
• Even in the church, we bury our heads. We’ll shout about “the system” but won’t mentor, tutor, or step in to make a difference.

The Law
Proverbs 4:7 — “The beginning of wisdom is this: Get wisdom, and whatever you get, get insight.”
God commands us to pursue wisdom, not excuses. Illiteracy is not just a social issue — it’s disobedience when we let our children grow up without knowledge.

Exhibit C: The Way Forward

• Parents: Make reading a daily habit in your home. Even 20 minutes a night changes a child’s trajectory.
• Churches: Stop only shouting sermons. Start literacy programs, tutoring nights, and book drives.
• Adults: If you can read, teach. Volunteer at schools, mentor one child, or help a neighbor’s kid with homework.
• Community: Value books more than Jordans. Knowledge outlasts sneakers.

Closing Argument
We can’t keep pointing at racism while our kids fall further behind. Excuses won’t teach them to read. The devil loves an ignorant people, because ignorance keeps us bound. If we want our communities to rise, we have to value wisdom the way God values it.

Verdict
Lord, wake us up. Break the cycle of ignorance in our homes and schools. Give us a hunger for wisdom and the courage to pass it on.

One of the biggest problems I see in both the Black church and the wider Black community is our habit of dismissing uncomfortable truth by focusing on how it was delivered. We call it “harsh,” “too direct,” or “not loving enough.” But let’s be honest: most of the time, that’s just tone policing.

Tone policing is when we ignore the content of a message because the tone makes us uncomfortable. It’s easier to pick apart the delivery than to face the conviction.

But here’s the reality:

• The prophets didn’t sugarcoat (Jeremiah 6:14, Isaiah 58:1).
• Jesus Himself often spoke in ways that offended (Matthew 15:12).
• Paul asked, “Have I then become your enemy by telling you the truth?” (Galatians 4:16).

God never required His messengers to soften sin until it feels safe. He requires truth spoken plainly so that hearts can be cut to repentance.

And this isn’t just a church problem. In our community at large, we see the same pattern:

• When someone calls out the destruction caused by abortion, fatherlessness, or sexual immorality, we shut down the conversation by saying, “They could have said it nicer.”
• When a pastor preaches against sin, people accuse him of being judgmental instead of examining their own hearts.
• When truth comes from outside voices, we dismiss it as “tone-deaf” or “anti-Black,” instead of asking whether the criticism actually lines up with reality.

But when we focus on tone over truth, three things happen:

1. Sin stays hidden. Our people keep hurting because we refuse correction.
2. The messenger is attacked. Instead of repenting, we cancel the one who dared to speak.
3. Repentance is delayed. Conviction is uncomfortable, but without it, there’s no turning back to God.

The Bible warns us: “For the time is coming when people will not endure sound teaching, but having itching ears they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own passions” (2 Timothy 4:3).

Family, we’ve got to stop demanding that truth come wrapped in sugar. Real love doesn’t coddle sin. Real love tells the truth—even if it cuts. And real repentance will never happen as long as we hide behind “tone” as an excuse.

Proverbs 27:6 says, “Faithful are the wounds of a friend.” Sometimes the wound is exactly what saves your life.

So whether in the pews or in the streets, let’s stop tone policing and start asking: What is God calling me to repent of right now?